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The "articles" section offers exclusive texts on sexological issues. For the production of content, Les 3 sex* relies on external collaborations. Before publication, all publications are evaluated and revised by our reading committee. Opinions expressed in the publications, however, are not an expression of the organization’s position, and only represent the points of view of the authors. Please note it is a possibility that some texts published do not represent all the gender identities of our magazine’s readership. To submit an article or a story, click here.

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Story • Nouvelle vision de la sexualité

19 September 2019
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Story • Single and childfree: So what?

19 September 2019
Elodie is a 28-year-old woman from France, living a single and childfree lifestyle, and has no desire to change this. This is also a must in her search for a partner: no matter how handsome or clever they may be, if they want children, it’s a no-no!...

Story • The choice of my life, the choice of a life!

19 September 2019
I am a 37-year-old woman, in a relationship with a man for the past 16 years, and I am childfree by choice. I believe that the main reason why I chose not to have children is my difficult childhood. ...

Story • Childfree for life

19 September 2019
From a very young age, I knew motherhood was not meant for me. I’ve always felt it, and as I got older, it only became clearer. I made the choice not to have children a long time ago, and it’s one that I am happy with....

Story • Children are not for me!

19 September 2019
“You don’t want children!? Well then! You are still too young to know!” I am 22 years old. Two seconds ago, I thought I was an adult. A young adult, sure, but nevertheless an adult who is capable of making their own decisions. ...

Story • We Are Not Wicked Witches

19 September 2019
I’m 35 years old. I started taking a real interest in the childfree movement about a year ago. Before, I did not really know that not wanting children was a thing. As a child and later as a teenager, ...

Story • A real woman must be a mother. Or not.

19 September 2019
“Why don’t you want children?” “You still haven’t met the right man.” “You’re young, you’ll change your mind.” “Who will take care of you when you’re older?”. I’ve heard so many questions and comments for years now and will probably keep hearing them for 20 or 30 more. ...

Story • Do you want children? Because I really don’t.

19 September 2019
When I meet a good-looking guy, one of the first questions I ask after "Do you want to go for a beer?"...

Story • To be a woman

19 September 2019
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Story • I Don't Have Children, So What?

19 September 2019
As far back as I can remember, I always knew that I wouldn’t have children. When my school friends played with dolls and pretended to be “little mothers”, I preferred to build forts outside or play with toy cars....

Article • Childfree: Between Freedom and Stigma

19 September 2019
The term “childfree”, sometimes referred to as “childless by choice” or “voluntarily childless”, is often confused, both in scientific literature and in current usage, with the term “childless”. The former pertains to people who have made a conscious choice not to have children,...

Article • Revenge Porn: Pornography That Just Isn't Porn

4 September 2019
In November 2017, in Australia, Facebook tested a controversial system to combat revenge porn: users were asked to send the explicit pictures they owned so that they would be spotted if ever they were to be shared without their consent....

Story • Naturalness and Laughter

31 May 2019
To all the wide eyes, to those who mock with laughter. To the pointing fingers whose shadows are aimed only at me. I am proud to have made your day and to know that today, I was able to give you something to talk about. ...

Story • Embodied Teaching

13 May 2019
I had the pleasure of teaching sex ed in high schools for 25 years: as a substitute for personal and social development courses (defunct since 2003); as a substitute teacher when there was no meaningful work to be done; as a social studies teacher...

Story • I have a boyfriend, sorry

25 March 2019
Sitting alone on an overly high stool. Scrolling down my Facebook feed almost mechanically. I hear somebody walk up. Twenty minutes earlier, when I had walked in alone, I had noticed the almost-subtle, slightly insistent look of the man in the back of the room. ...

Story • Sexual Anarchist by Default

4 March 2019
I am truly fascinated by human sexuality. Really. I think my fascination began the day I started questioning my sexual orientation....